This last week has been spent in BP, after we travelled into town on Wednesday. I had two medical appointments, one on Wednesday, the other on Thursday, which went off OK. On Thursday I had a haircut at the hairdressing salon situated in our own block. It was reasonably priced and the cut was very good, so I think I will go back to her in future. On Friday I had to go back to the hospital for some blood tests again, and I am happy to report that the nurse was pretty good this time. No pain, no bruise and quick flow of blood from the appropriate vein.
| Roy with his beloved Talisker |
I was preparing for Roy's birthday on Monday and bought a litre bottle of Talisker, (£65), a particularly smoky and peaty malt whisky, from a specialist shop in downtown BP on behalf of Stephen and Alex, as their present. The purchase was done online and not wanting to be stuck in the flat for days waiting for the delivery, I opted for going and fetching it ourselves. Unfortunately it was not delivered to the shop in time on Saturday, so we only got it on Monday. Roy was very pleased with it, as we both love it.
On Sunday I attended the online launch of Alan Woods's new book: The History of Philosophy - a Marxist Perspective. It was an excellent introduction to the book, which I know that Alan had been writing for at least 25 years. When I was involved in providing material for his book: Reason in Revolt, back in the nineties, he told me that he wrote a bit on philosophy to go into the book, but there was no space for it any more. That was the beginning and this Sunday the launch of the book that bit became in the last 25 years. I ordered a copy of the book which is coming out in print at the end of October.
| Perusing the menu in the Zila |
Monday was Roy's 80th birthday, which was spent with much travelling, some eating and drinking and generally having fun. He chose to have dinner in the same restaurant where we celebrated our Golden Wedding over 18 months ago. The city is so dug up for renovation and reconstruction of underground, tram and other lines, that a usually 45 minute journey took nearly 2 hours. Still, the food and drink was that much more welcome after a trauma like that.
| Pike-perch in almond batter |
| Beef with fried onions and an egg on top |
I had pike perch, Roy had beef and onions and we both had a sweet, which we don't normally do. Roy had a Somlói galuska, which is like a chocolaty trifle and I had a truffle cake. I dread to think how many calories my cake had, but it was beyond delicious. Roy had beer and I stuck to my usual spritzer. That was the day we fetched his Talisker and also went to the Telenor shop to have my new phone adjusted a bit. Now, thankfully, I only have to put in the safety code number once, not after every time the screen goes dark, plus the aggravating habit of my phone contact book coming out with names in all stupid order, was also set back to normal.
| Truffle torte |
| Somlói galuska |
We both suffered from a great deal of indigestion for the rest of the day and the following night, which was just punishment for eating so much and even more of the stuff we shouldn't eat, but how often do you celebrate your 80th birthday? I think you can sin just now and again.
One of the really gorgeous birthday gifts came from Sheila, in the form of a very large birthday card. Apparently, Carmella designed it using Sheila's old photo album, full of pictures of Roy at all ages. They had it printed and sent it in the post. I was hanging onto it until his birthday and it was a delightful present. Photos from top left hand corner clockwise: 1. Pam, Roy and Sheila appr. 1945, 2. Pam saying good bye to Roy, who's leaving to appear in The King and I at Theatre Royal Drury Lane, London, 1953, 3. Roy with a bottle of phony tadpoles at a fancy dress do in Westhill Rd. Brighton, 1946, 4. 19 year old Roy on the seafront in Brighton, 5. Roy and I at the Eden Project appr. 20 years ago, 6. Roy at St Michael's Mount in 2015, 7. Roy and Sheila in the garden of the Museum of Furniture in Budapest appr.10 years ago, 8. Roy on board Oceana early last year, 9. Roy outside 22 Petworth Rd. Brighton 1952, 10. Roy at Westhill Road, Brighton, aged 3, 11. Centre photo, Roy on the seafront in Brighton, in the paddling pool, aged 2.![]() |
| Brenda Blethyn in Vera |
While in town, I watched quite a lot of TV, as the speed of the internet here is so much faster that the VPN works a lot better with it. I am currently into Endeavour, Vigil and Vera. I like all of them, as they are similar in some and very different in other ways. Vigil has finished, more or less as I expected it to, Endeavour and Vera are much of the muchness, what we are used to, but very enjoyable the same time.
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Reading books had to take a bit of back step lately, due to my eyes, but recently I picked it up again, this time re-reading a series of 4 books by Tamás Frei. His genre is a strange one, I don't think there is a word for it. They are thrillers, with real places and with hints at real people too. The historical events quoted are all real, but the main characters are fictional. This first one, which came out about 10 years ago is about the main hero's personal story and his fight to "redress the balance", as he calls it. What he means here is that while he believes that it is usually the baddies that win, he can, with his bravery and fighting ability, redress that balance in favour of the goodies. Lots of love, fighting, swashbuckling with 21st century arms and plenty of political comment. Very good entertainment, and it helps me switch off. I have already finished the first one, and will move onto the second volume when we get back to Bér.
Yesterday we went to the dentist, where finally things got moving a bit, mostly to do with me putting my foot down and letting the dentist know that we are not 100% satisfied with Roy's progress. Originally, I used to go with him into the treatment room to translate. Then the following few appointments, they told me that the dentist speaks English and there is no need for it. Well, that was a mistake, not because he doesn't speak English, on the contrary, he is quite proficient. The trouble is with his communication skills, in any language I suspect and Roy's propensity to misunderstand people.
| Muggins at the Zila |
So, this time I marched in and told them that I am attending, so that Roy is fully informed, if there is any difficulty, I can translate and if he misunderstands anything I can put him right later. I stood in the corner watching the dentist work, and I must admit I was quite impressed. He was caring and thorough, and this time talked to Roy quite a lot, making him feel that he was welcome to answer and/or ask things. I think I will have to do this, if not all the time, but periodically, so that this level of effort at both communication and dental work is maintained. Roz since confirmed to me that his mouth feels much better and the temporary bridge is much firmer than the previous one was.
| Roy with his food at the Zila |
I have also expressed some concern about the cost spiralling out of control, with unexpected extractions and the need for many interim temporary bridges, as well as 2 implants, after which he promised to produce a written copy of the altered treatment plan and a re-examination of the costs. He straight away promised to give us £150 discount to ease the raised costs due to the delay in treatment while Roy's jaw heals. That was most welcome and now, I think, we are back to consider staying with the surgery, which we were thinking of leaving before.
And finally, in the spirit of all things medical, I had a brain MRI, which was ordered by the neurologist to eliminate potentially serious problems that might be causing my headaches, dizziness and double vision. It was done with efficiency and courtesy in a private clinic for the princely sum of £106, which is pretty reasonable, if you ask me. I got the CD, but I decided I will not look at it to worry me, until I can discuss it with the neurologist, when I next see her.
| The conservatory at the Zila |
The interesting thing today was that Roy and I had a nice walk about in another part of downtown BP en route to the clinic, which we knew better than the one last week, but which still was quite interesting. We walked from the terminus of no. 70 trolleybus, right through Liberty Square, past the American Embassy and many other massive buildings, which were quite photogenic. The other welcome aspect of this walk was the realisation that for once, that the government, while renovating the square, managed to leave many of the ancient trees in the square alone. This government is known for its murder of thousands of trees in the city, but thankfully Liberty Square still has many of them.
| Travelling by bus |
Tomorrow I am supposed to go geocaching with Feri and Karesz, but I very much doubt if anything will happen. Firstly, the weather forecast is dreadful, and secondly, my dear friend Feri has not been particularly reliable to keep his promises lately. If we don't go caching, I think I will just laze around at the flat and get ready for our weekend away at Monoszló at Pityu's place with lots of good friends. Next post sometime next week.








